AstroBec

Like a lot of people I have found what I want in a relationship and what I need, seem to be very different. I want excitement, freedom and unpredictably, but I need to feel safe and someone that will notice the details and care for me. How would I find a magical person that can fulfill all of that? Is that too much to ask? Well, yes it is... Humans are complex, we are born with our own personalities, early childhood experiences that have molded us into who we are - and we change overtime too through through our life experiences, maturity and the feedback we receive. But astrology can uncover our proclivities and hopefully by reading this you will have some 'aha' moments to help you understand why your wants, needs and desires can be out of sync. Disclaimer : you need to consider the whole chart, progressions, transits etc. of the individual to really understand the person - you shouldn't judge a person by an aspect in isolation. What you need -  The Moon ...

The Descendant cusp of the 7th house The natural house of Libra which is ruled by Venus Angular or Cardinal house Crystal associated with the 7th house - Rose Quartz (carry rose quartz if you want to bring more love and compassion into partnerships and relating with others) The descendant is the sign opposite the ascendant over the western horizon at time of birth. It represents partnerships, marriage, professional partnerships including clients and the other. It is how we engage in relationships. The   7th house is how we relate to others. Planets in the 7th house, the ruler of the 7th house and aspects to the ruler will help determine what type of partner you are attracted to, and your wants and needs within partnerships. For example in my chart I have Mercury in the 7th, I have attracted Geminis and Virgos into relationships. My marriage partner is a Virgo.   My 7th house ruler is in the 1st house and with Aries on the descendant I am asse...

Where were you born and what time? Finding out the time and place of birth of someone that you are not reading for can be a bit of a challenge. How do you slip it in the conversation without appearing too nosy? It's not something you can naturally ask straight away when meeting someone,   unless they're obsessed with astrology like you. There is a bit of an art to obtaining this data point without appearing too full on, patience is key - after building some rapport and casually mentioning your obsession with astrology it will be   easier to ask ;) Along with date of birth, time and place of birth is the key to thoroughly understanding someone's natal chart. That information tells us what sign was on the eastern horizon the time they took their first breath in this world, at that point a snapshot of the heavens is taken and that is your star map for this life time. Note the time of birth can also be inaccurate because it really depends on how pr...

                                T-square Uranus Opposite Moon/ Square Venus Uranus the planet of individuality, evolution and freedom is in the sign of Leo the fixed fire sign which is creative, proud, playful and demands attention. This shows up in the house of shared resources, merging with others, sex and death. The Moon which is the emotions and instincts of the native, is in Aquarius which is the rebellious, individualistic and humanitarian sign and is located 2nd house of values, self-worth and resources. These planets are in opposition, this means the energies are pulling in different directions and create a see-saw effect, and there is a need to balance out the opposition. With Uranus being the dispositor of Moon in Aquarius the link is stronger between these 2 planets. The Moon opposing Uranus means a l...

  South node in Cancer 7th house Oprah's past life/ early life lessons to overcome is a tendency towards being ruled by emotions to seek out habitual comforts as a form of self-protection, also clinging to the past and being too needy with others. This shows up in her the part of life of one to one partnerships, including romantic relationships and close friendships. In summary Oprah has to overcome using her close relationships as a security blanket and the desire to be taken care of, these relationships can hold her back, keep her living in the past and constantly clinging on to what was and what could have been. North node in Capricorn 1st house Oprah needs to learn and develop in this life in order to obtain fulfillment is to be ambitious, determined, patient and resilient.   This is building her skill set and expertise; by showing she is committed and not afraid of responsibility and stoic in the face of adversity. This lesson shows up in her p...

Mars which is the energy, drive and assertiveness is expressed through the fixed, fire sign Leo which is ruled by the Sun. Leo is playful, proud and regal and this gives the individual energy that is purposeful, demands attention and not afraid to lead. In the 4 th house this shows up in the area of life which rules early childhood, roots and home-life.  The Moon which is the instincts, emotions and internal nature is in the fixed water sign Scorpio which is ruled by Pluto. Scorpio is all about depth, intimacy and intensity and a Scorpio moon individual has a depth of emotion, is naturally suspicious, private and protective and feels very deeply.  In the 7 th house of partnerships and marriage they draw in deep emotional and possessive relationships and partnerships. The square causes a lot of tension between the energy in their family life and partnerships which could result in power struggles and conflicting demands between life partners (including business p...

The wound manifests through the sign of Aries which means the self-expression and will are the source of inadequacies and pain. This shows up in the 2 nd house of values and security, so they may feel financially insecure and this makes them feel less than others.